BAEC status matching?

OK... so due to somewhat dwindling options to get me to BHD, which I need to do on a regular basis, it looks like I'm going to start using BA as my standard carrier. These flights used to be on BMI codes, but they are now showing up as BA on my corporate travel system, so who am I to argue. No doubt a consequence of the takeover.
I just realised that I don't actually have my own BAEC account - all the RC family's avios miles are in my wife's name, from the days when she used to travel with BA a lot (and since topped up via Tesco). I never have...
I clearly need to get myself set up pronto, so can you help me with a few questions:
1) Is there any way to get a status match with BA based on my VS AU status? I hear that they sometimes match to silver, and it would be nice to be able to use a lounge on my Belfast hops (assuming there is one!)? Ditto things like free seat selection. If so, what's the process?
2) Given that I'm now the traveler of the family, is there an easy (and more importantly, free) way of moving my wife's avios over to my account once I get it set up?
3) Given that I've picked up a handful of cathay/dragonair miles over the past week and parked them in a new Marco Polo club account, can I transfer them over too? Personally I'd rather have everything bucketed into Avios if I have the choice with the OW partners.
Probably quite basic questions, and I realise that I could always go and post this on the BA page of flyertalk, but everything I hear suggests that they can be a fierce and unforgiving bunch, so decided to try here 1st!
thanks
RC
I just realised that I don't actually have my own BAEC account - all the RC family's avios miles are in my wife's name, from the days when she used to travel with BA a lot (and since topped up via Tesco). I never have...
I clearly need to get myself set up pronto, so can you help me with a few questions:
1) Is there any way to get a status match with BA based on my VS AU status? I hear that they sometimes match to silver, and it would be nice to be able to use a lounge on my Belfast hops (assuming there is one!)? Ditto things like free seat selection. If so, what's the process?
2) Given that I'm now the traveler of the family, is there an easy (and more importantly, free) way of moving my wife's avios over to my account once I get it set up?
3) Given that I've picked up a handful of cathay/dragonair miles over the past week and parked them in a new Marco Polo club account, can I transfer them over too? Personally I'd rather have everything bucketed into Avios if I have the choice with the OW partners.
Probably quite basic questions, and I realise that I could always go and post this on the BA page of flyertalk, but everything I hear suggests that they can be a fierce and unforgiving bunch, so decided to try here 1st!
thanks
RC