Not getting a warm fuzzy feeling…..

Hi everyone
After a rather long break from v-flyer (after a very stressful experience on my last VA trip) I am now back and looking forward to a trip to MCO in a couple of weeks time. Or do I need to worry??
I will confess that I have been to the dark side (BA) over the past couple of years and it wasn't too bad. VA lost my business after trying to bump Mr B and myself off our last flight. We were booked to go PE to Orlando but when we got to the airport a good two and a half hours before the flight to check in, we were told that as the flight was fully booked and we hadn't done online check-in they assumed we were not coming and we did not have a seat
The only alternative they could offer was one UC seat and one Economy on the earlier flight which was at the gate and about to leave and if we wanted that one they would book it and we would have to run (or walk very quickly in Mr B's case!)
At the time I was flabbergasted (surely being silver counted for something - but obviously not) but we decided that a quick dash was better than no holiday at all. There then seemed to be a long delay while they decided how many miles to add back to my account as compensation. While this was going on, 2 PE seats miraculously became available and we were back to Plan A on the later flight. Stress or what?? Rather shabby treatment and the more I thought about it, the more cross I got. Coming back the flight was appalling so I voted with my feet.
So now I am back with a flight booked. But I have been unable to choose my seats for the outgoing flight, despite being online at T-60. I have been able to select for the trip back - but according to VA website, there is not a flight running on this day! (I was checking to see if seat availability was good or not in case my daughter is coming back with us) Am I being paranoid? I know the flight cannot be full as there are plenty of "free seats" to be had if we wanted to change our seat selection.
Please tell me all will be fine - I need a warm blanket of reassurance from the v-flyer community. Or just be brutal……..
p.s. Have also done a Delta trip this year to Florida via Atlanta. Economy Comfort is not too bad and I would probably do again given the price differential between that and VA PE.
After a rather long break from v-flyer (after a very stressful experience on my last VA trip) I am now back and looking forward to a trip to MCO in a couple of weeks time. Or do I need to worry??
I will confess that I have been to the dark side (BA) over the past couple of years and it wasn't too bad. VA lost my business after trying to bump Mr B and myself off our last flight. We were booked to go PE to Orlando but when we got to the airport a good two and a half hours before the flight to check in, we were told that as the flight was fully booked and we hadn't done online check-in they assumed we were not coming and we did not have a seat

At the time I was flabbergasted (surely being silver counted for something - but obviously not) but we decided that a quick dash was better than no holiday at all. There then seemed to be a long delay while they decided how many miles to add back to my account as compensation. While this was going on, 2 PE seats miraculously became available and we were back to Plan A on the later flight. Stress or what?? Rather shabby treatment and the more I thought about it, the more cross I got. Coming back the flight was appalling so I voted with my feet.
So now I am back with a flight booked. But I have been unable to choose my seats for the outgoing flight, despite being online at T-60. I have been able to select for the trip back - but according to VA website, there is not a flight running on this day! (I was checking to see if seat availability was good or not in case my daughter is coming back with us) Am I being paranoid? I know the flight cannot be full as there are plenty of "free seats" to be had if we wanted to change our seat selection.
Please tell me all will be fine - I need a warm blanket of reassurance from the v-flyer community. Or just be brutal……..
p.s. Have also done a Delta trip this year to Florida via Atlanta. Economy Comfort is not too bad and I would probably do again given the price differential between that and VA PE.