BGI Hotels with Kids Clubs , not AI and not too £££ !

Hi there
Have enough miles to get 3 EC tix to BGI in March, so now looking at accomodation. Our son will be 3 by then and we would like to stay somewhere that has a decent kids club where we could leave him for the odd few hours here and there during our stay. I have started looking at prices and all the hotels with kids clubs seem to be all inclusive and hence ££££. We are not keen on AI and tend to want to explore a bit for food, or maybe have something in our room sometimes as it can be a bit tricky with a toddler eating out all the time.
Does anyone know of any hotels that might meet our criteria ? Prefer west coast, but other areas with nice beach considered.
We would ideally want somewhere that has kitchenette but still has access to hotel type facilities as above.
It may be that I am looking for something that does not exist ?
Many Thanks
L2H
Have enough miles to get 3 EC tix to BGI in March, so now looking at accomodation. Our son will be 3 by then and we would like to stay somewhere that has a decent kids club where we could leave him for the odd few hours here and there during our stay. I have started looking at prices and all the hotels with kids clubs seem to be all inclusive and hence ££££. We are not keen on AI and tend to want to explore a bit for food, or maybe have something in our room sometimes as it can be a bit tricky with a toddler eating out all the time.
Does anyone know of any hotels that might meet our criteria ? Prefer west coast, but other areas with nice beach considered.
We would ideally want somewhere that has kitchenette but still has access to hotel type facilities as above.
It may be that I am looking for something that does not exist ?
Many Thanks
L2H