Recommendations for Hotel in Caribbean?

Having hit the post Australia slump, it's time to decide on a summer holiday. At the moment it's a toss up between a week at the Edinburgh Festival and "somewhere in the Caribbean".
I have a backup plan as to where the "somewhere" might be, but I wonder whether it's time to try somewhere else and am hoping to tap the wisdom of the V-F crowd. I'm not particularly bothered about which island / country, but what we look for in accommodation is..
1. Boutique style -though will go larger if the "feel" is right, but not a "resort"
2. All inclusive option
3. Child free - or at least no kids clubs or other overly family friendliness
4. Easy beach access
So, it's up to the V-F team. Is it to be nights under the stars, fine dining and rum punches or nights under the umbrella, unsuitable fried things and cheap lager?
Thx
Paul
I have a backup plan as to where the "somewhere" might be, but I wonder whether it's time to try somewhere else and am hoping to tap the wisdom of the V-F crowd. I'm not particularly bothered about which island / country, but what we look for in accommodation is..
1. Boutique style -though will go larger if the "feel" is right, but not a "resort"
2. All inclusive option
3. Child free - or at least no kids clubs or other overly family friendliness
4. Easy beach access
So, it's up to the V-F team. Is it to be nights under the stars, fine dining and rum punches or nights under the umbrella, unsuitable fried things and cheap lager?
Thx
Paul