Well, I do eight long haul trips a month, Slinky...

Now pretty much all on EK (heading south, or east) and BA heading west. Pretty much all to DXB, JFK, EWR, ORD, JNB, CPT and HKG. Their loss.
I worked out the other day that I have flown now over 200 times with EK. And you know what. NOT. ONE. PROBLEM. EVER. Platinum is now getting close.
VS's attitude to their frequent flyers has reached a point where almost anyone is better. A shame, since from airport to airport they are still pretty good.
I would really recommend that anyone on here who enjoys VS goes and tries someone else. You may be unlucky, in that the replacement carrier makes a mistake, but for pure volume of screw ups, just a glance at their Facebook page will make you see all you need to. For an airline with so few passengers, relatively, they make too many mistakes.
I'm not sure if you are implying that I should be more relaxed. I don't see why - if I spend £7k on a ticket with an airline, I expect them to care when things go wrong. If that's unreasonable, well so be it, but don't expect me to be relaxed in the face of such pig ignorant rudeness and disdain from VS Customer Disservices.