Originally posted by FlyCC
I really can't stand it when I hear people saying "oh, that's gay" When they actually mean something like "oh, that's stupid" I actually find it quite offencive. Would the term "that's so Asian" be accepted?
No I would assume not, but that is because the word is not used in the english language to mean that - there are many words that have different meanings and when I use the word "gay" to refer to an object I am not implying that the object is any way associated with a homosexual person or that I am demeaning homosexual people. Remember the word "gay" did not mean a homosexual person around 30 years ago either!!
As usual
Wikipedia has some good stuff on it especially the part referring to "common usage" -
Gay is used as an adjective to describe sexual orientation and is usually chosen instead of homosexual as an identity label.
Gay sex is used to describe sexual acts between or among people of the same sex or gender, regardless of their sexual orientation.
Gay is used to describe the "gay community" by both insiders and the mainstream media.
Gay is sometimes used to describe an object of particular flamboyance or camp.
Gay can be used as a throw-away, nondescript, derogatory comment towards a person or object. (Ex: That movie was so gay!)